Book Review: The House of My Mother: A Daughter's Quest for Freedom by Shari Franke

Title: The House of My Mother: A Daughter's Quest for Freedom

Author: Shari Franke

Series/Standalone: Standalone

Genre: Nonfiction, Adult, Memoir

Pages: 320

Publisher: Gallery Books

Year Published: 2025

Format: Audiobook

"From eldest daughter Shari Franke, the shocking true story behind the viral 8 Passengers family vlog and the hidden abuse she suffered at the hands of her mother, and how, in the face of unimaginable pain, she found freedom and healing.

Shari Franke's childhood was a constant battle for survival. Her mother, Ruby Franke, enforced a severe moral code while maintaining a facade of a picture-perfect family for their wildly popular YouTube channel 8 Passengers, which documented the day-to-day life of raising six children for a staggering 2.5 million subscribers. But a darker truth lurked beneath the surface- Ruby's wholesome online persona masked a more tyrannical parenting style than anyone could have imagined.

As the family's YouTube notoriety grew, so too did Ruby's delusions of righteousness. Fueled by the sadistic influence of relationship coach Jodi Hildebrandt, together they implemented an inhumane and merciless disciplinary regime.

Ruby and Jodi were arrested in Utah in 2023 on multiple charges of aggravated child abuse. On that fateful day, Shari shared a photo online of a police car outside their home. Her caption had one word: "Finally."

For the first time, Shari will reveal the disturbing truth behind 8 Passengers and her family's devastating involvement with Jodi Hildebrant's cultish life coaching program, "ConneXions." No stone is left unturned as Shari exposes the perils of influencer culture and shares for the first time her battle for truth and survival in the face of her mother's cruelty."

My Rating: Not Applicable

With memoirs such as these, we have to be thoughtful if we are rating anything. I find that sometimes I rate these based on the writing, but it doesn't make a lot of sense to others. This novel is well written, answers questions and tells Shari Franke's story without taking the antanomy from her younger siblings' stories. It's an interesting story, heartbreaking, but a cautionary tale to us as viewers. Look deeper at family vlogging, what do we see?

Thank you for reading.
Sidny